So we have all heard "There is no such things as safe sex, abstinence is the only way to protect yourself 100%" and while this may be true, but there are ways to reduce the risk of disease transmission and prevent pregnancy.
On the note of pregnancy prevention, there
are as many choices and options as there are stars in the heavens (for
women) Everything from natural family planning methods to sterilization!
Male birth controls have been in the works for years but nothing has been set in stone or ground breaking. Not as many options exists for the prevention of disease transmission.
You really only have barriers. Condoms (Both male and female), Gloves,
and dental dams. Luckily these are all pretty easy to come across.
Testing regularly is also a good idea. I have a full STD Panel done once a year and again if I am changing partners.
current partner and I are fluid bonded, and have been for 10 years.
(Meaning we have exchanged bodily fluids). Now this only protects us if
we use a barriers with other partners and if we are open and honest
about who we are sleeping with etc. This also (obviously) doesn't
protect against pregnancy. Currently since we are 18 hours away from
each other, we are not really concerned with pregnancy prevention, but I
prefer a natural planning method that utilizes things like you basal
body temp, the consistency of your cervical mucus and keeping track of
your period to predict ovulation, and your fertile/not fertile days.
So what are your thoughts on safer sex?